What you believe is what you get
Words does not matter, writing/communicating without 100% understanding of a receiver is not worth an effort (99-100% of efforts, 0-1% of a result).
It is practically unattainable to achieve 100% understanding. The 100% understanding can be achieved only by living our own life.
And I don't believe currently I can share some truth (don't want to write another soap opera like "think good, love anyone..." bullshit).
Hovewer I do know one truth, "what you believe is what you get", and it makes everything for me, and fo you.
Other words are useless. Thinking/believing is omnipotent for your life.